Speaking of Faithful....

reminded of this play by No longer Music the band that came in 1996 when i was sec one to COOS for a live performance free, where we could bring people. was totally cool as we kinda sowed the seeds (The Preteens) by going down to City hall area and distributing flyers to teens and young adults. awesome experience! i was with karen pan and michelle lin and ingrid??
yeah those were de dayz....

Anyway, back to the musical/concert by NLM, they sang "Faithful" about keeping ur vows in marriage. got me reminded that marriage is For Life...
If u're not ready......don't consider it. period. I would never ever want to marry only to find out my man has another woman under his wing or hidden in his heart (that's worse!!). He has to say his vows with the right motives. Honesty is splendid, really.
Right now.......the trend's to find "our match"....some just grab one to go with the flow, some date for experience, some wanna fill the gap in their hearts/security.
Loneliness is a condition of the mind and heart, not the physical state.
As far as my learning of all this goes...There's no definite "time" as to whether one is "ready" or not for a relationship but more , "Have i found the right partner?" and..."Has God spoken to both of us on the direction to take? Unromantic yet critical questions......tell me marriage is all abt romance only its B.S. (bull...)
On a softer side, a man that loves God passionately, is faithful to God and loves His word, sweet (to me only), compassionate, cares for the lost...(and some other criteria i wont mention here)....now, that's something....
:p Hope it doesn't seem like a wish list to You God....well definitely a hope-list but not shopping list. hehe. *wink*